Published at
19 Jul, 2025
Author
Gripastudio
They say the future belongs to the young — but what happens when the present doesn’t offer them a place to start? This is a quiet reflection on potential, purpose, and how dignity is more than just a job title.
As a retiree, I’ve come to cherish slow mornings — especially the ritual of sitting at a café with a good cappuccino, quietly observing the world as it rushes by.
That day, like many others, I wasn’t eavesdropping… but I couldn’t help overhearing two young gentlemen talking at the table beside mine.
They looked like fresh graduates — one of them still wearing a university jacket.
I overheard him sigh, half-laughing, half-defeated:
"I think I’ve done everything right. GPA’s good. Application and resume designed by AI. Still nothing.”
His friend didn’t reply. Just nodded slowly while sipping his iced tea. Eyes down. Listening.
I could see it in both their faces — that early exhaustion, the kind that shouldn’t belong to people just starting out.
Indonesia has one of the largest youth populations in the world — vibrant, intelligent, full of ideas.
And yet, 1 in 4 of them can’t find a job. That’s more than 11 million people under 30 who are ready to contribute — but don’t know where to go.
It’s not from lack of trying. It’s not laziness, or entitlement, or unrealistic dreams.
It’s the system — slow to adapt, rigid in structure, still clinging to an era that no longer exists.
Factories are shrinking. Startups rise and fall before they ever hire. AI is doing more, and humans are being asked to wait their turn.
But for what?
When we read headlines about youth unemployment, we see statistics. But behind every percentage is a person.
A daughter who feels like a burden. A son who doesn’t want to ask for more. A young adult who worked hard for a degree, only to return home feeling invisible.
We don’t talk about what this does to the spirit.
We forget that before someone builds a career, they are building something quieter — a sense of self-worth.
And without meaningful work, that foundation can begin to crack.
There is a Javanese wisdom that says:
“Urip iku urup.” To live is to give light.
But how do you give light when no one gives you the space to shine?
When the world keeps asking you for experience but won’t give you your first chance.
When you apply again, and again, and again — and all you hear back is silence.
If you are one of them — still waiting, still trying, still hoping — this is not your fault.
You are not “late.” You are not “not enough.” You are not a statistic.
You are part of a generation being asked to be patient in a world that moves too fast.
But please — don’t let this world convince you, that your worth depends on your wage, that your voice needs a title, that your contribution starts only when someone else says, “you’re hired.”
What if we stop waiting to be invited? What if we start creating spaces where value isn’t measured in job offers, but in insight, initiative, and integrity?
The truth is: the system may not change fast enough. But we can change the story we tell ourselves.
Not everyone can be an entrepreneur. Not everyone wants to be a content creator.
But everyone can learn. Everyone can connect. Everyone can grow. Everyone can give — even while in transition.
And maybe, just maybe, that’s where real momentum begins.
So if you’re reading this, and you feel stuck — not for lack of ambition, but because the doors just aren’t opening — please know:
This waiting doesn’t make you less. This pause is not the end.
And when the world is ready, it will need your light. So keep it burning. Quietly, steadily, bravely.
In the meantime, tend to the one thing you can always carry: your inner state.
Let your energy stay kind. Let your spirit stay grateful.
Respect others, even when you feel ignored. Love your environment — care for the little spaces around you, even if they don’t seem to care back.
Because the universe responds to sincerity.
I strongly believe that, If you share your love with the world, the world will eventually find its way to love you back.
Not always through applause or offers, but in quiet openings you didn’t expect — in people who appear when you stay kind, in chances that come when you keep learning, in dignity that no job title can give or take away.
Urip iku urup. To live is to give light. Even now. Especially now.
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